I came across your site and saw so many things that were similar to my husband, Joe. Joe passed away on 4/7/07, just 9 days before Claire. He too died of cancer. He was diagnosed just 8 months prior of pancreatic cancer. After many months of chemo, it continue to spread and the treatment was stopped. I was able to take care of Joe myself, at home, with the help of hospice. He died peacefully, painfree. I thank God we had those last 8 months to profess our love for each other and spend every minute together. Joe passed away the day before our 40th wedding anniversary. I saw the Mets logo on this site. The first day Joe was waked was the opening day at Shea Stadium. Joe was an avid Mets fan and his ticket for opening day and his green Mets cap were buried with him. May God bless you all and may you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of Claire.
To Diane and family of Claire. I was surprised recently to see that Diane had visited my mothers memorial site. What a wonderful message and candle was left. Thank you. What a small world that two families of independent women who raised four children each and battled the same diesease should find each other on this web site. I pray for you all and my condolences for your loss. I share with you an irish poem that is our families favorite and hope it helps to heal your pain. ..... Kitty
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush Of gentle birds in circling flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry— I am not there... I did not die.
we miss you claire! we know youre watching over the babies & everyone else<3